Love Being Yourself

Counseling

  • Mindware being initiator and leader in Certified Counselor’s Training Program. We have a panel of all senior certified quality counselors. All the counselors trained to be a good listener and posses with skills to understand acquired intelligences to help the customer in their important area of life.

    This results in adding real value in those areas of life which are critical to the customer. This happen in overall accuracy of interpretation of the report and understanding acquired intelligences based on the relevance of Who is it for.

Parenting Counseling

  • Primary goal of parenting counseling is to give parents tools and technique for great parent-child bonding and Learning How to Positively Communicate With Child.

    One of the secrets to successful parenting is to use certain communication and discipline strategies consistently and in a prescribed order. This consistent sequence is the key to improvement and kids know that you are serious about better behavior. Your child will listen more effectively and take your suggestions more seriously. With improved compliance at home, he/she will perform better at school or college and get along better with his peers, with adults and with family.

    Parenting Counseling will share the secrets to convert defiance to compliance. Repairing conflict by setting clear and consistent limits will reduce family turmoil and allow you to build emotional intimacy with your child. This will help in happy and stress free parent child relation.

    At Mindware, parents learn the secrets about timeouts, communication cues and behavioral/privilege restrictions that work every time. In addition, parents learn which positive behaviors to reward and how to make the rewards maximally effective.

    Parenting in today’s age

    Our children are growing up in a society that emphasizes performance over character and wealth over honesty and morality. Parenting has never been more challenging as we strive to teach our children the self-discipline, self-confidence and resilience they must have to be competent adults.

    All too often, they witness the opportunistic behavior of peers, the self aggrandizement of our celebrities and the injustice of a tough business market. To make matters worse, the self-importance of the twenty something generation is a confusing tidal wave of influence. If they compete for narcissistic attention, they join a legion of self-possessed and directionless peers. If they fail to compete, they may feel marginalized socially. All this confusion delays their transition into stable adulthood.

    As a result, too many kids in their late teens and twenties take a full decade to grow up rather than developing adult coping skills that help them separate and individuate.

    We specialize in helping parents take back their empowerment with their kids and set new boundaries while maintaining a loving relation and bonding, but firm stance.

    Parents will be guided through:

    Why an entire generation is more blessed than any generation in history but has the highest rates of clinical depression

    In most of cases the teen behavior start very early due to access to technology and mass media.

    How “twenty five” (years old) is the new “fifteen”: Why kids are taking so long to grow up, when it comes to taking responsibilities.

    Setting tough limits when other parents fail to impose any limits.

    Finding the fine line between preaching and mentoring

    Teaching humility, compassion, and faithfulness in the age of indulgence

    Helping your child to learn emotional self control, self discipline and responsibility.

    Setting boundaries without guilt or regret

    Emotional Intelligence for a Lifetime

    Father Child Relationship:

    We believe that fathers have never been more important in the life of a young child.

    The role of the father is pivotal in creating self-esteem and empowerment in his children. His leadership in the family is vital in creating security and boundaries. However our society provides little guidance on how men can optimize their parenting with their children.

    A father is usually his child’s first playmate, his protector, his guide to the world of business and leadership, his first mentor in academics and in sports, his first advocate in achievement and the first one to miss him when he leaves for college.

    A father is vital to his child’s positive development in the following areas:

    Creates his son’s and daughter’s first beliefs about men

    He is their first playmate, their chief protector and guide to the world

    A father is usually his child’s mentor in the business and professional worlds.

    He is the first male to lead them spiritually and morally.

    Dads are often the intellectual coaches and the cheerleaders of achievement

    Fathers demonstrate respect and honoring of their mother

    Teaches Self Discipline and Building Self Reliance.

    Helps to Develop resourcefulness and problem solving under stress.

    Enhances Appropriate Body Image Development

    Increases Self Confidence, Academic Empowerment and Self-Initiative professionally

    A father is one of the first people to welcome his son or daughter into the world and remains one of their staunchest supporters throughout their life.

    Our Father-Child Counseling focuses on all of these areas. We teach strategies, techniques and coping skills that will enhance and strengthen all of these parenting responsibilities.

    Mother Child Relationship:

    At Mindware it is our belief that a mother’s love is invaluable in setting the stage for a lifetime of self-confidence, personal effectiveness, empathy and emotional intelligence.

    Her enduring connection and steady advocacy of her adult child maximizes the child’s ability to achieve in relationships, in parenting and in the professional arena. However, she must learn to not hover but to enhance her child’s journey into adulthood.

    Many of us do not understand the fundamentals of effective mothering, especially as our children are increasingly independent

    We either "over parent" or “under-parent.”

    We may mistakenly believe that our older child is in need of our constant input and guidance. At the other extreme (under-parenting), we are convinced that he is incapable of assuming responsibilities for which he is unprepared. Either polarity can lead to a tumultuous passage for mothers and their kids.

    At Mindware, we specialize in coaching concerned mothers in how to become maximally effective parents through counseling focusing on reestablishing their parenting confidence, increasing their own understanding of their feelings about parenting and helping them rewrite their parenting story with their own child. Creating a new vision of their parenting, they will become more decisive, maintain better boundaries and negotiate conflict effectively.

    Most importantly, we teach mothers to trust themselves, to maintain realistic, loving expectations of others and to focus on the incredible positives in their children.

    Remembering that a mother’s love is eternal, we work hard to reinforce the sacred emotional bond between our mothers and their daughters and sons.